In 21st century, there are new definitions of ‘Nirmal Anand’ , some ‘latest trends’ and Generic ‘New definitions’. Few are as follows.
1. Sit in a bar or at some place drink as much as possible.
2. Go to disc and dance till you get tired.
3. Look for one more boyfriend / girlfriend (sometime it is called as genuine log).
4. Ignore human factors, Get busy with own things.
5. What are you doing this weekend, should be your first question.
6. The person sitting next at the moment is your BEST friend at that moment; forget it once he/she is getting away.
7. Friday fun and Saturday night concept must be your life style.
8. You must listen, and honor them if someone calls you as ‘Bindaas’; this is the biggest honor to you.
If you believe above 8 points then it is called ‘Modern’ i.e. ‘Being Non Conservative’ i.e. ‘Advance’.
What is not considered as ‘Niramal Anand’.
1. Following up your hobbies.
2. Reading some books.
3. Listening to music.
4. Talking to friends and family.
5. Watching movie.
Above four points requires a non toxic mind and one need to sit in house. But if you do this then it ‘ll become conservative approach i.e. ‘Non Modern’.
Definitions:
Spending the life Vs Living the life:
One of my friend has came across this concept, “If you are thinking of someone and contributing to his / her objectives that means you are spending the life, in other way you are living the life i.e. other person is spending on you”.
Focus of life:
Similar to above, A Human factor should not be considered as “Focus”, a focused life is concentrating only on career, money, materials.
Personal Space:
This is very important concept; it is there in Indian philosophy since long time. It is being used to improve one’s personality, spirituality and skills.
The new concept is “Let me do whatever I want” i.e. kick / ignore the people or human factors around.
By heart, close to heart:
Some concept or someone praise you, or give you the logic / reasoning then it is by heart or close to heart.
Being Independent:
The absolute independence means minimal dependencies on the materials and people i.e. as minimum it is one is more independent.
The latest concept is “I am financially independent”, I can do what I want.
Author’s comment:
I ‘ll keep adding these definitions as I come across.
Now I have a question to the readers,
Are being Modern gives “The Happiness”.
Are these definitions lead you to peace of mind? Or it is just satisfies one’s ego and outer mind?
Open for discussion, feel free to mail me your thoughts.
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2 comments:
The shallower the mind, the happier you are. After all ignorance is bliss. And it can't get any shallower than getting punch drunk or aping the weekend culture. Looking forward to hearing the new age definitions of family, work, vacations, and quality time.....
Sany's comment:
Happiness is a state of mind which cannot be associated with stereotype definitions of behavior. What is Nirmal Anand for one may not be so for others. Likewise, independence is not just independence from material but more importantly independence of the mind. Nevertheless, I admire your attempt to define the mantra for happiness!
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